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Posted by Tigs. on September 25, 1999 at 00:52:06:

Ronnie, I hope you are okay, there seems to be a lot of shit going on. things that are confusing, hard to understand. I am concerned about people like Carrie who feel alienated by the board and think it is their fault, because I know I am just the same, if I was here at this time and not slightly earlier.

Don't take it on board when you are having a tough time yourself. I'm sure there is still support here when you need it. I know I do. I've thought a lot about the sort of situation you raised. It came up today for my friend Helen (an eight I think) when someone laughed at her, and it was obvious they were just silly teenage girls, but she is so sensitive and reacts with aggression.

it's sad but I'm learning not to trust people. Like not to be so self-revealing because people will pin a label on you and use it, like my college. I don't know if that will make me less sensitive to other people; I hope not, but already I am feeling more closed up. I don't really want to live like this. I wish I had a husband to support me. I'm sure they would pick on me less if I did. Jonathan was surprisingly supportive.

I wish all you folks could come over for a party. I hope Cecil is alright.
you mustn't feel down because you are one of a precious breed. You haven't really mentioned friends, but I hope you have some like-minded people closer to home. Maybe you could get closer to your mum, I've got closer to mine over the last couple of years. Women are usually fairly open once they get over the embarassment. Wishing you well,

Love Tiggy.

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To Tiggy Ronnie 14:06:11 9/25/99 (15)
- Re: To a now wiser Tigger Tiggy 08:04:29 9/26/99 (14)
  - Re: To a now wiser Tigger Ronnie 10:28:33 9/26/99 (13)
    - Re: To a now put in her place Tigger Tiggy 19:27:38 9/26/99 (12)
      - Re: To a now put in her place Tigger Ronnie 00:26:31 9/27/99 (11)
        
        Re: To a now put in her place Tigger Tigs 16:54:04 9/27/99 (10)
        
        Re: To a now put in her place Tigger Ronnie 13:49:54 9/28/99 (9)
        
        Re: To a now put in her place Tigger Summer 15:04:19 9/28/99 (8)
        
        Terrible secrets revealed... Ronnie 16:05:02 9/28/99 (7)
        
        Translation: I think? Ev 07:51:16 9/29/99 (6)
        
        Re: Translation: I think? Ronnie 11:06:03 9/29/99 (5)
        
        Re: Translation: I think? Tiggy 22:56:38 9/29/99 (4)
        
        Re: Translation: I think? Ev 21:22:46 9/30/99 (0)
        
        Personal sensitivities... Ronnie 05:50:20 9/30/99 (2)
        
        Ev, please repost... Ronnie 17:39:11 9/30/99 (0)
        
        Re: Personal sensitivities... Ev 15:29:23 9/30/99 (0)

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: Ronnie, I hope you are okay, there seems to be a lot of shit going on. things that are confusing, hard to understand. I am concerned about people like Carrie who feel alienated by the board and think it is their fault, because I know I am just the same, if I was here at this time and not slightly earlier. : Don't take it on board when you are having a tough time yourself. I'm sure there is still support here when you need it. I know I do. I've thought a lot about the sort of situation you raised. It came up today for my friend Helen (an eight I think) when someone laughed at her, and it was obvious they were just silly teenage girls, but she is so sensitive and reacts with aggression. : it's sad but I'm learning not to trust people. Like not to be so self-revealing because people will pin a label on you and use it, like my college. I don't know if that will make me less sensitive to other people; I hope not, but already I am feeling more closed up. I don't really want to live like this. I wish I had a husband to support me. I'm sure they would pick on me less if I did. Jonathan was surprisingly supportive. : I wish all you folks could come over for a party. I hope Cecil is alright. : you mustn't feel down because you are one of a precious breed. You haven't really mentioned friends, but I hope you have some like-minded people closer to home. Maybe you could get closer to your mum, I've got closer to mine over the last couple of years. Women are usually fairly open once they get over the embarassment. Wishing you well, : Love Tiggy.

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