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Posted by Ronnie on September 25, 1999 at 15:36:33:

In Reply to: Re: Tired... posted by Ev on September 25, 1999 at 01:39:52:

It just might be "not well educated/cultured" might be a bit of understatement, hell, I couln't say...

I could imagine getting just about any kind of company in Texas could be a easier than in Europe, outside the catholic areas...again, just a hunch. Knowing people from here and there (including south eastern Texas, various other areas in the US, Israel, the nordic countries and england), I'd consider it a very realistic one.

That bit Tiggy said about "in case you accuse them of sexually harassing you" has so much truth in it. As a man, it's not just about rejection, it's about that no matter what you say, the women seem think "Whatever that guy wants, I'm not giving". Try to strike up any nice conversations in such a preveiling mood. The jerks or "cretins" really do exist. Ev, if you'd see what it can be like in some places, you wouldn't be wondering.
It's almost like two factions that have dug into treches and are ready in case the other one attacks. Of course, getting drunk enough changes temporarily the situation, just to be worse than ever on the next morning.
I've seen enough of it and it disgusts me.

However, it's difficult for a nice guy to make the first move. (Speaking out of personal experience) How do you speak to an ice princess, anyway?
I was in a part of the college I used to be in talked to a girl who's studying there, but didn't do that for long. Why? Because I'd expect to be considered a human being with feelings, not a "Schwein" initially.

Talking about good places to meet a potential someone, I'd rule pubs, bars and clubs out right away. At least in here where I live. I've supported enough breweries and distilleries to know. Only good things you can find in a bar are beer and assorted spirits.

As I've said before, I've never met a special someone and I often doubt I ever will. Still, I've given up conscious trying, because it seems more you try, less likely really finding what you are looking for is. Or then I'm just in a need of a time-out...

Ronnie

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Let intuition guide you Ev 17:01:20 9/25/99 (2)
- Re: Let intuition guide you Ronnie 05:21:07 9/26/99 (0)
- Re: Let intuition guide you Ronnie 05:19:03 9/26/99 (0)

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: It just might be "not well educated/cultured" might be a bit of understatement, hell, I couln't say... : I could imagine getting just about any kind of company in Texas could be a easier than in Europe, outside the catholic areas...again, just a hunch. Knowing people from here and there (including south eastern Texas, various other areas in the US, Israel, the nordic countries and england), I'd consider it a very realistic one. : That bit Tiggy said about "in case you accuse them of sexually harassing you" has so much truth in it. As a man, it's not just about rejection, it's about that no matter what you say, the women seem think "Whatever that guy wants, I'm not giving". Try to strike up any nice conversations in such a preveiling mood. The jerks or "cretins" really do exist. Ev, if you'd see what it can be like in some places, you wouldn't be wondering. : It's almost like two factions that have dug into treches and are ready in case the other one attacks. Of course, getting drunk enough changes temporarily the situation, just to be worse than ever on the next morning. : I've seen enough of it and it disgusts me. : : However, it's difficult for a nice guy to make the first move. (Speaking out of personal experience) How do you speak to an ice princess, anyway? : I was in a part of the college I used to be in talked to a girl who's studying there, but didn't do that for long. Why? Because I'd expect to be considered a human being with feelings, not a "Schwein" initially. : Talking about good places to meet a potential someone, I'd rule pubs, bars and clubs out right away. At least in here where I live. I've supported enough breweries and distilleries to know. Only good things you can find in a bar are beer and assorted spirits. : As I've said before, I've never met a special someone and I often doubt I ever will. Still, I've given up conscious trying, because it seems more you try, less likely really finding what you are looking for is. Or then I'm just in a need of a time-out... : Ronnie

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