Question for heathererb and others w/ same situation

Posted by Margaret (206.203.36.168) on April 30, 2002 at 19:51:55:

heatherb, you left everything you had to move to your husbands home in Spain. Weren't you scared of it not working out? My cousin left her job, home, etc, to move to her bf's town too, (they are now married). I remember thinkg I could and would never do that. But now that I wnat kids, well..my question is how did you ever get over that 'pride' thing, that's what stopping me myabe, I don't want people (including myself) thinking less of me because I gave a potential good job just to see if it's possible to make a family. Maybe I'm just wondering, Is the decision for a woman to give up her job to start a family with a potential partner really bad? Or do you think it's okay?

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• Re: Question for heathererb and others w/ same situation 24Etc (24.60.166.16) 22:39:14 05/06/02 (0)
• I feel much better now, it's all been settled now (text) (whew) Margaret (206.203.36.168) 15:52:37 05/04/02 (0)
• Well how else can she have a baby? nt Tiggy (195.93.49.189) 22:14:16 05/01/02 (6)
  • Artificial Insemination, unprotected sex, etc. NT froggyTheFrog (9w8) (68.35.149.134) 01:03:20 05/02/02 (5)
    • No, I meant how else if she doesn't give up work. nt Tiggy (205.188.198.22) 16:08:27 05/03/02 (2)
      • Tiggy, some people can do both (txt) 24Etc (24.60.166.16) 10:13:55 05/06/02 (1)
        • I know, but Margaret has no partner or family support or money for childcare. nt Tiggy (195.93.48.172) 18:01:09 05/06/02 (0)
    • As a christian, you believe in another way of getting pregnant :)NT diarm (194.125.172.106) 04:43:12 05/02/02 (1)
      • I did not say I recommended these means. :) But there's an answer to Tiggy's question. NT froggyTheFrog (9w8) (68.35.149.134) 09:15:57 05/02/02 (0)
• Re: Question about the potential partner Diarmuid (194.125.174.158) 11:37:39 05/01/02 (1)
  • Re: Question about the potential partner Margaret (206.203.36.166) 17:32:06 05/01/02 (0)
• Re: Question for heathererb and others w/ same situation heatherb (213.98.230.197) 04:29:08 05/01/02 (5)
  • Re: Question for heathererb and others w/ same situation Margaret (206.203.36.166) 17:37:08 05/01/02 (4)
    • then again, Margaret (206.203.36.180) 18:00:03 05/01/02 (3)
      • Re: then again, Primer Gray (208.251.7.66) 13:00:44 05/03/02 (2)
        • I agree froggyTheFrog (9w8) (158.114.92.201) 14:37:36 05/03/02 (1)
          • I think all it was, was just a control issue, that's now been settled (text) Margaret (206.203.36.168) 15:28:19 05/04/02 (0)
• Re: Question for heathererb and others w/ same situation froggyTheFrog (9w1) (158.114.92.201) 20:12:53 04/30/02 (0)

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