Posted by Diarmuid (194.125.174.158) on May 01, 2002 at 11:37:39:
In Reply to: Question for heathererb and others w/ same situation posted by Margaret (206.203.36.168) on April 30, 2002 at 19:51:55:
Well, actually I want to know as much as possible about him.
But, if you're thinking of quitting work, are you positive he'll be fully able to support the you and a kid?
You're confident he'd stick with you through the tough times? That you'd stick with him?
: heatherb, you left everything you had to move to your husbands home in Spain. Weren't you scared of it not working out? My cousin left her job, home, etc, to move to her bf's town too, (they are now married). I remember thinkg I could and would never do that. But now that I wnat kids, well..my question is how did you ever get over that 'pride' thing, that's what stopping me myabe, I don't want people (including myself) thinking less of me because I gave a potential good job just to see if it's possible to make a family. Maybe I'm just wondering, Is the decision for a woman to give up her job to start a family with a potential partner really bad? Or do you think it's okay?