Posted by Tiggy (195.93.48.172) on May 06, 2002 at 18:01:09:
In Reply to: Tiggy, some people can do both (txt) posted by 24Etc (24.60.166.16) on May 06, 2002 at 10:13:55:
: One of my sisters did it. I wouldn't.
: She love work. I mean, it really means something to her.
: But she loves her kids as well. And they are doing great.
: (the hubby is a consultant, btw)
:
: : : : : heatherb, you left everything you had to move to your husbands home in Spain. Weren't you scared of it not working out? My cousin left her job, home, etc, to move to her bf's town too, (they are now married). I remember thinkg I could and would never do that. But now that I wnat kids, well..my question is how did you ever get over that 'pride' thing, that's what stopping me myabe, I don't want people (including myself) thinking less of me because I gave a potential good job just to see if it's possible to make a family. Maybe I'm just wondering, Is the decision for a woman to give up her job to start a family with a potential partner really bad? Or do you think it's okay?