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Heuristic typing
Heuristic typing
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Posted by Brian C. on September 30, 1999 at 21:39:28:
In Reply to: Short version versus Long posted by Jenny on September 30, 1999 at 11:56:10:
Hi Jenny, I do not have an answer. I have an opinion. Seeking our type is a step. How we seek the answer is somewhat revelatory. Do we look in an independent way. Do we seek consensus. Do we like tests/instruments. Do we want our type confirmed upon us. I suggest that you take the highest and next highest scores on any test(s.) Rule out extremes. Narrow down to Center if possible. Or centerS if not. Say, for example you could be 5,4 0r 7. Read the descriptions about all and narrow down again. The next step is LIVE interpersonal interaction with other Enneatypes of same or different perspectives. Most of us vacilate and ambivalate about type on occasion. The 5w4 and 4w5 are common on this BBS. This is STRICTLY my opinion, but, taking one's self typing out to the human interactive proving ground is the validating (or Invalidating) experience. Many have reasons (excuses?) for not being able to go to workshops/seminars: maybe reasons are part of the compulsion. This BBS can help. Go back and look at various posts. The Tal and Ryan posts are often classic 5 posts: long, detailed, forensic, etc. Andy has had great 7 posts (IMO.) The 4 board is classic. Do you identify with one or more versions. The answer lies within. For some people it is like sexuality. It is easy or difficult for some people to know their own experience except in the context of their environment and up-bringing. I think this is very normal and typical of how we all mature and grow. Looking outside the "box" is a challenge in itself. Only you can find the answer(s) for yourself. My suggestion is to look in community; that is a challenge. One's resistance is part of the puzzle (one's excuses: money, time, distance, etc.) If you were thirsty, would you seek to quench your thirst? The question is, how? My answer is: ultimately, with human interaction, because that is where we live. (Implies acceptance by others.) I am saying two components: First, Iam a ----, and second, others accept me as a -------. Both are integral to type. Resistance is a clue either way. Good luck. Sorry I can not be more specific, but I am a Nine.
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