Posted by Flower Pagan (68.35.113.192) on January 29, 2003 at 13:53:02:
In Reply to: Re: Link (as a link and not an image) and Results posted by David (139.134.58.153) on January 28, 2003 at 18:28:21:
> Have you ever considered the possibility that you have mistyped yourself as a four when you may in fact be a two? There are similarities which a test like this seems to weed out?
I don't think I am a Four, even though I have experienced some of the things they went through. I discovered I can actually smile in my 20s without depending on laughter. I thought my mouth was too small to smile. LOL I am just unique because I march to the drummer with a different beat. I don't try to be that way. I just am.
I have two friends, one is a Two and the other one is a Four. They both are relationship oriented, sensative to what others think, and emotional. The Two is compliant but acts like she is in control and there to nurture the hurting and listens to everybody's chaos with a loving persona. The Four acts compliant, but she is happier when she withdraws and is the one who wants someone to listen to her inner hurts and give you chaos when she is moody. She is the greatest!
They both don't like it when I get emotionally detached when they both need me to get in touch with my feminine emotions and validate their feelings. I feel bad for hurting them for being that way, so I made an effort to be more emotionally available. The Two wants acknowledgement that she is good and those people have treated her badly, which is true. The Fours wants understanding and validation for their feelings, which I have learned that their perceptions are valid and real for them, whether I agree with it or not.
I sometimes think the Two and the Fours are too emotional, but their emotions have been a blessing to my own personal growth. They are the ones who listens to me and give me understanding when I have my moments of sadness. When I withdraw and isolate myself into my own little world, they are the ones who knows how to bring me out and get me out the door again. I wish I had a Four and a Two as friends in Albuquerque because they are good for me, though messy emotionalism makes me want to withdraw.
How am I going to get myself out of isolation when Froggy is not around???
Flower Pagan