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Enneagram Type 4 Board Archive Re: Deciding between 4w3 and 7Posted by raz62 (12.108.99.30) on May 13, 2003 at 09:45:30: In Reply to: Re: Deciding between 4w3 and 7 posted by Rho (24.61.40.6) on May 12, 2003 at 19:37:49: I think a 7 will enter a group of complete strangers and talk on and on and on, and a 4/3 would not. A 4/3 might go on and on with intimates but that's about it. I have seen differences in how a 7 and a 4/3 deal with conflict -- the 7 pretty much laughs and says what they think and then skips off to a "positive" subject -- I guess 7s are the optimists -- whereas a 4/3 will keep ripping the other person apart, going after feelings, plus revealing their own painful feelings, and until the situation is resolved a 4/3, like an elephant, doesn't forget. (I'm a 4/3)
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