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About saying the first hello and eye contact
About saying the first hello and eye contact
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Posted by micki on June 20, 1998 at 10:14:39:
In Reply to: Re: About saying the first hello and eye contact posted by Mark on June 19, 1998 at 22:24:15:
Thank you for sharing, Mark. It's good to know that other people experience the same "stuff." I appreciated your remarks, especially the reminder of our "oversensitivity to rejection". As a 5, I need to be more like an 8 and not worry about rejection, just be me and say whatever I want. And yes, we 4s and 5s have to take it easy on ourselves. Take a deep breath and just relax! In such situations, the mind can really do a job on us. But we can choose not to listen to the "chatterbox mind" and just relax into the moment. But if I was at your church, this is one person who would love if you came over and said hello to me first.
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