Posted by micki on June 20, 1998 at 10:14:39:
In Reply to: Re: About saying the first hello and eye contact posted by Mark on June 19, 1998 at 22:24:15:
Thank you for sharing, Mark. It's good to know that other people experience the same "stuff." I appreciated your remarks, especially
the reminder of our "oversensitivity to rejection". As a 5, I need to
be more like an 8 and not worry about rejection, just be me and say
whatever I want. And yes, we 4s and 5s have to take it easy on ourselves.
Take a deep breath and just relax! In such situations, the mind can
really do a job on us. But we can choose not to listen to the "chatterbox
mind" and just relax into the moment. But if I was at your church, this
is one person who would love if you came over and said hello to me first.