|
Enneagram Type 4 Board Archive Re: Help is the sunny side of controlPosted by Laura on June 28, 1998 at 01:11:50: In Reply to: Help is the sunny side of control posted by N.W. on June 26, 1998 at 17:11:14:
:I appreciate many of the comments regarding helping another with depression. As a four, I found it could be a dangerous energy drain for me , to try to help another "snap out of it", or "really, feel your feelings"...all that changed for me with the work I have done since learning the enneagram. I,too, am comfortable listening...however, I now only listen when my own energy is strong, when I am in a positive state of mind,and I won't listen forever anymore!
|
|