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Posted by Jasper on October 18, 1999 at 15:43:33:

In Reply to: Re: Okay now. posted by Tigs. on October 18, 1999 at 13:53:16:

: Thanks Jay,

: Yes, last night was very odd. Like PMS except it wasn't. I feel all right now. I had slept much of the day and had lots of dreams, so maybe that wasn't good for me.

: Had an odd letter from the college today, saying could I send further copies of my essays urgently as they couldn't mark them till they had the duplicates. I only sent the essays because they said I hadn't done them;didn't expect them to get marked - I assumed I was off the course. They don't seem to know what they're doing! Maybe Sr. Kathleen's gone senile. She's probably forgotten who I am.

: If I can't go back on the course there, I'm going to go and do it in York which is a lovely city. I have a good friend there and could join a very good lively church I know of, so I don't feel alone. So I don't really mind either way.

: If you want to come and visit any time, feel free. We'll gladly put you up and show you round London; it's something of a speciality of ours, doing that. The food and wine at our homely guesthouse is highly recommended and my mum likes adopting young men.

: Tigs.

Addendum: the other thing I forgot to mention. Did you ever consider that it's your destiny to leave your mom's house and move on to some other place--like York. That all things dumping on you might really be a sign that you need to be like totally on your own? That maybe the answer lies in York and not going back to that School?

If it came down to it, could you realistically make the move? I am not saying "do it"--maybe staying put and ironing out the situation in Essex is the right approach, but I remember 12 years ago when I was at one of the most down times of my life living at home, and I didn't think moving out would help me at all, but my dad practically forced me out, co-signed an apartment for me, and from the first night in my own place, I could feel shifts taking place on cosmic planes. Thank God for Dad. Otherwise Mom and I would have killed each other.

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Re: Bin there, done that. Can't afford it. Tiggy. 17:14:33 10/18/99 (9)
- Re: Bin there, done that. Can't afford it. Jasper 17:49:27 10/18/99 (8)
  - Re: Too much, too little, too lonely. (Sob!) Tigs. 21:01:39 10/18/99 (7)
    - Re: Too much, too little, too lonely. (Sob!) Jasper 09:46:11 10/19/99 (6)
      - Re: I desire a long mauve velvet skirt. Tiggy. 14:18:52 10/19/99 (5)
        
        Re: I desire a long mauve velvet skirt. Jasper 15:15:12 10/19/99 (4)
        
        You don't think I'm pretentious!?!?! I've failed! (NT) Tigster - Pretentious? Moi? 17:33:38 10/19/99 (3)
        
        Re: You don't think I'm pretentious!?!?! I've failed! (NT) Tiggy 22:02:08 10/19/99 (2)
        
        Re: You don't think I'm pretentious!?!?! I've failed! (NT) Jasper 10:14:53 10/20/99 (1)
        
        Re: You don't think I'm pretentious!?!?! I've failed! (NT) Tiggy. 18:29:18 10/20/99 (0)

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: : Thanks Jay, : : Yes, last night was very odd. Like PMS except it wasn't. I feel all right now. I had slept much of the day and had lots of dreams, so maybe that wasn't good for me. : : Had an odd letter from the college today, saying could I send further copies of my essays urgently as they couldn't mark them till they had the duplicates. I only sent the essays because they said I hadn't done them;didn't expect them to get marked - I assumed I was off the course. They don't seem to know what they're doing! Maybe Sr. Kathleen's gone senile. She's probably forgotten who I am. : : If I can't go back on the course there, I'm going to go and do it in York which is a lovely city. I have a good friend there and could join a very good lively church I know of, so I don't feel alone. So I don't really mind either way. : : If you want to come and visit any time, feel free. We'll gladly put you up and show you round London; it's something of a speciality of ours, doing that. The food and wine at our homely guesthouse is highly recommended and my mum likes adopting young men. : : Tigs. : Addendum: the other thing I forgot to mention. Did you ever consider that it's your destiny to leave your mom's house and move on to some other place--like York. That all things dumping on you might really be a sign that you need to be like totally on your own? That maybe the answer lies in York and not going back to that School? : If it came down to it, could you realistically make the move? I am not saying "do it"--maybe staying put and ironing out the situation in Essex is the right approach, but I remember 12 years ago when I was at one of the most down times of my life living at home, and I didn't think moving out would help me at all, but my dad practically forced me out, co-signed an apartment for me, and from the first night in my own place, I could feel shifts taking place on cosmic planes. Thank God for Dad. Otherwise Mom and I would have killed each other.

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