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Re: (whats a wing ?) OCD in fours

Re: (whats a wing ?) OCD in fours


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Posted by Me ;-) on July 01, 1998 at 00:58:12:

In Reply to: Re: OCD in fours posted by Derf on April 22, 1998 at 00:41:58:


: Cheers,
: Derf (4 double-winger, VERY strong 1 - of course)

I've heard this a couple of times. Wings, moving from 4 to 1 or something like this. Can some1 explain this concept to me? I'm guessing you mean one is developping from 4 to 1 ? However, since I've read all of this and it all is bubbling and living in my head, my feelings have changed a lot. I no longer have the feeling I'm always right, and that the whole world is against me. Maybe this change has got nothing to do with this, cuz in my life lots in happening now also. Actually since then, I haven't been so outspoken anymore at all and I actually feel much better.

BTW: My top 10. (but some of them might come from my all my hormones getting all nuts at this age ;-)

10. Whenever some1 critizes you, you make a comment so sharp, people get scared of you.

9. You don't have motivation for anything, except enjoying yourself, by yourself.

8. You can get in a trance just with music, a sleep-shortage or too many thoughts. Whenever you are in such a trance, you can get moments where your impulses completely take over, however this requires music. You can have a sort of private dance, but I wonder how it actually looks.

7. You talk too much and take everything way too serieus.

6. One day you're happy, next day your down, sometimes over the smallest thing.

5. You like to buy stuff. You have no problem getting another book, cd or some food, however you care less about money. You like the freedom of not caring about it.

4. You like to play games with people to protect yourself. Its a way to socialize in such a way you have more control.

3. You can see right through people. I mean you know people, and can predict what are gonna do. Because you have a need for control and have been training this edge for years.

2. You hate show-offs. Abosolutely hate! And you always feel you need to point out the rest of the world, that that person is a show-off. That it is fake.

1. You're a digger for deep-talks but have to act during supervicial (how should I write that?) contact with people. Esspecially saying hi. The conflic of to not like to hear your voice, but you would love to express yourself, your thoughs, your feelings, your analyzes and your opinions.

0. You have a great taste, and are very capable of having a good time.

Does anyone notices the same ?

-Ralf (a 16 year old Dutch male)



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