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Enneagram Type 4 Board Archive Re: 4's and childrenPosted by Gretchen on July 23, 1998 at 15:38:21: In Reply to: 4's and children posted by soleil on July 22, 1998 at 22:46:58: Before I start, I'm going to let you know that I am only 15 and a half, so you needn't base any major life changing desicions on what I have to say. I am a 4w5, and since I am only 15, I haven't even considered the idea of children at this point in my life. However, I have thought about what future circumstances would allow. When I was younger, I was never interested in dolls or playing house, I'd much prefer to draw and read as any typical four. In my opinion, having to look after children of my own would be a terrible drag to what I wanted to do. I noticed this as one of your concerns. I was wondering if you had considered the positive aspects of children. As a four I'm sure you can appreciate this... "It is no slight thing when they, who are so fresh from God, love us." ~Goethe My experiences with children prove that they have an unconditional, unwavering love, and, I think, that is what a four craves most in life. This is just my opinion, and I know you asked for advice, but I have none so this is all I have to give.
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