Re: 4's and children

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: I can't help but comment how you remind me of a friend : - my best (only?) platonic female friend, whom I've known for : about ten years. She too was a 4w5 with the dream of : being artist. She was beautiful, but usually alone. She also : had a minor ailment which I thought she overstated. Early on : she told me that she never wanted to have children. : Suddenly about two years ago (at age 36) she started having : having Fourish regrets about not marrying and having children. : She said she felt that she had wasted her life. Well like the : Romans said "be careful what you wish for - you might get it", : she finally found her true love. Really. They were married about : six months ago. : I recently visited the two of them. I discovered that the happiness : which she radiated six months ago was still there. It was odd to : speak with her and not sense the Fourish aura of melancholia : and tragedy to which I had been so accustomed. I also : discovered an interesting development: she was a couple : months pregnant! : Well this story is hardly over - it remains to be seen how my 4w5 : friend will cope with the *reality* of childrearing (assuming that, as : I pray, all goes well at age 38). Perhaps Fourish women are : doomed to regret life whether they choose to have children or : not. Somehow, I doubt it. As a confirmed Five, it has been my : general observation that the happiest women are mothers, period. : Nothing can replace the sacredness of motherhood, and nothing : can compare to it in the male half of the species. : Well I fervently hope that none of this influences you to be rash : and to do something which you regret later. I also hope that you : do not resent the presumptuousness of my male commentary; : I only wished to describe one life which sounds similar to yours. : I wish you all the best in whatever path you take. : Very respectfully, : Copperhead

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