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Enneagram Type 4 Board Archive Re: Positive things about being a THREE.Posted by summer on August 04, 1998 at 17:17:36: In Reply to: Re: Positive things about being a THREE. posted by Hal on July 29, 1998 at 13:23:20:
Hal, I have to agree with you. Like I said on the main message board, all the numbers can be pains in the ass at certain levels, but I particularly find the average to unhealthy 3's offensive. When trying to point their negative faults because they've gone way overboard, you get nothing but hostility & tables turned so it looks as though YOU are the one with the problem. Hey, were are none of us perfect! I found it's an inability to admit their mistakes that causes such conflict with other people - a big drawback. And the constant bragging really grates on the nerves, too. My 3 friend used to continually put herself on a pedestal about something about her life, while at the same time, pointing out my inferior situation, etc. REALLY ANNOYING, to say the least! And the worst part of it is, she has no idea just how obnoxious she can come across. Now if she was a healthier 3, she'd be fantastic!
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