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Re: Wow, gotta same some more sorry

Re: Wow, gotta same some more sorry


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Posted by Cali on August 11, 1998 at 14:07:44:

In Reply to: Re: Wow, gotta same some more sorry posted by Hal on August 11, 1998 at 09:43:55:

: : Hal---
: : wow, just wanted to say thank u so much for the much needed advice. I will definitely put it to good use! 4-ness IS definitely something to be cherished, but also something to keep under control. Also, high school is definitely a hard place for me to find people to have a good, real, relationship with. Hopefully I'll get lucky :-) I do know of some guys who do seem like
: : good "prospects" <----hehe I know that sounds bad. It's taken a long time for me not to always get caught up in the "jocks" and popular guys because they are so easy to approach- but in the long run could never work- and now I see people behind the woodwork who are so incredibly awesome but no one would ever know until they got to know them and I think that's what all
: : us "4's" hope to find- someone who sees us for what we are, and searches us out. Maybe also because that takes the pressure off of us also. I dunno- I'm still workin on it :-)
: : thanx for the incredible follow up.
: : -Lauren

: Lauren,

: You've got a wonderful start. I wish I knew myself that well when I was in high-school. Looking back, it seems like I was always being pushed into being a 5 or 1 or 3. All I knew was that I didn't fit in. And I never knew a thing about real relationships. It brings tears to my eyes to know that you've found your place. Don't let these good "prospects" pass you by--they really are the awesome people you're looking for.

: I don't know what else to say at the moment, except that I'm still working on it too. Right now, I'm just really happy for you, and a little bittersweet for myself that I missed out on so much because I didn't realize things until much later that you already know. Your future is bright indeed.

: - Hal -

Hal
hehe hey again! This is Lauren, but talked to summer and I guess I needed to get an alias-
Your follow-up really touched me and gave me a new prospective-thank u. lol maybe it
sounds like I know what I'm doing but I'm really a mess...Finding all u guys is
definitely helping a lot. You seem like you do have things figured out and so things
are just waiting for you to make it better- and it sounds like u definitely will-
a good heart and understanding will take u wherever u want to go and u've already
got it covered.
-"Cali"


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