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Enneagram Type 4 Board Archive Re: Hi Hal - relationshipsPosted by Mercurio (4w5) on August 15, 1998 at 00:36:32: In Reply to: Re: Hi Hal - relationships posted by Hal on August 14, 1998 at 13:11:59: Push/Pull (a.k.a. The Yo-Yo Effect)...The four's most painful dilemma! Have any of y'all ever owned a cat? If you have, you're probably aware of How do we accomplish this? By asking for "space" when they get near (which we usually do in an explosive, hurtful manner), and grovelling when they leave our side. Unless the object of our affections has overwhelming stamina, patience and limitless resolve to make a relationship work, it's not easy loving a four...
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