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Enneagram Type 4 Board Archive Re: On Feeling DetachedPosted by Athena on November 01, 1999 at 18:24:45: In Reply to: On Feeling Detached posted by Emily on October 31, 1999 at 20:27:43: I have felt the same feeling. Unfortunately, I too, am experiencing detachment right now. However, it is the detachment that saddens me, as I am not only detached from the one person I love the most, but am also detached from my feelings for her. The detachment also encompasses "tuning out" the world. What world? Huh? Did you say a plane crashed? Wait---what do you mean today?!?!? I thought that happened last week??? Um...uh..... I can't believe I miss this stuff....(and even when I "don't" miss it, I screw up the info!) This particular detachment--and perhaps this was true other times as well--feels to me as though it is a defense against feelings I don't want to deal with. Yup. Something worse than detachment. For me, this detachment is an escape. I'm very afraid of the feelings I'm keeping at arm's length. I know that this has to do w/ my 5 wing. It's classic 5.... I wish everything was ok.... Do you think this (keeping other feelings at arm's length) might be part of what's behind your detachment?
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