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Enneagram Type 4 Board Archive Re: What feelings are real during push/pull?Posted by Summer on September 02, 1998 at 16:25:55: In Reply to: Re: What feelings are real during push/pull? posted by Hal on September 02, 1998 at 13:15:13: Beautifully said, Hal. I have found this to be a problem with me in the past, and I'm getting much better at it, knowing the consequences of speaking my mind now, & later regretting it deeply. Fours do get into situations when the feelings overwhelm us and we can't see the forest through the trees. It's never a good idea to make decisions or even answer difficult questions at this time. I have a feeling this is a big problem for fours; this overwhelming anger, which the next day, will be looked at (and felt) much, much differently. We attack, and then feel the terrible guilt of our words. If your a four who can apologize, great, but sometimes, even an apology is too late....
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