Re: Soliciting advice

Posted by Anon on October 04, 1998 at 23:20:36:

In Reply to: Soliciting advice posted by Jeseppy on October 04, 1998 at 00:47:32:

First I would like to commend you on the fact that you attempted to rebuild this friendship. I had a rather horrible falling out with my closest friend and I've been too frightened to even look for closure. It still sits there every day nagging me since I see her everyday in school, at church, and since we have mutual friends. That is the problem I've discovered when you don't try to reconcile. I don't imagine she'd be very amiable to talking everything over even if I had the guts to call her, but that is just the way she is. Your friend could be completely different. I am not able to answer your questions since I am not close enough to the situation... The only time I tried to reconcile after a squabble left me broken and depressed. I let my vulnerability show and the person took advantage of it. To try and salvage the relationship, I admitted it was my fault even though it wasn't entirely mine. To this day I am tormented by this person as he knows my vulnerabilities. I hate to shun people, but this person is the exception... I wouldn't trust him again ever.

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