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Re: DENOUNCEMENT

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Posted by Scott on October 14, 1998 at 09:06:31:

In Reply to: DENOUNCEMENT posted by Cindy on October 12, 1998 at 23:48:58:

Hi Cindy (an all)
I just have one thing to say to your message:
"I don't subscribe to that"

No actually, I agree. I found that for me it helped to thing about:
1. that I needed to accept my own feelings, wants, likes etc as legitimate
even if now one else agrees. Besides, just cause someone does not agree with my way of thinking does not mean that I am wrong.

2. Accept that I am not responsible for how others think or react. If someone chooses to react negatively to something I think or do that is their choice. I don't react that way to others different from me. They don't have to either and if they do, that is their responsiblity not mine.

Scott

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: Hi Cindy (an all) : I just have one thing to say to your message: : "I don't subscribe to that" : No actually, I agree. I found that for me it helped to thing about: : 1. that I needed to accept my own feelings, wants, likes etc as legitimate : even if now one else agrees. Besides, just cause someone does not agree with my way of thinking does not mean that I am wrong. : 2. Accept that I am not responsible for how others think or react. If someone chooses to react negatively to something I think or do that is their choice. I don't react that way to others different from me. They don't have to either and if they do, that is their responsiblity not mine. : Scott

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