Read it again, please

Posted by Hank (205.188.208.106) on September 20, 2003 at 05:30:42:

In Reply to: hellpers posted by Chat (63.190.105.80) on September 19, 2003 at 20:33:31:

Where did I say that I married her? She is my fiance. I don't live with my fiance. We both work all day long, how am I going to help her?

I'm truly mystified when people don't comprehend what they read.
> Hank, are you actually a nine? and is your wife a very frustrated three?
> Teachers spend an inordinate amount of time on preparation, especially
> when they want to SUCEED in educating students. Threes also want relationships to SUCEED. Slackers really frustrate threes, especially,
> spouses who are not mission oriented. Result: Nine: who me? Three:
> I do not know how to "handle" him. Observing party: She is so "pissed"
> she seems like a carping one. So, how are you "helping" your wife? Is
> it by letting her take the lead, set the agenda, do the work, while you
> "help." That is what average to lower level Nines do while rationalizing
> that it is "helpful" to the situation. Actually, it is reducing internal
> conflict for the nine, while simultaneously infuriating the significant
> other, who has no justification for being angry: after all, they are being
> "Helped." Let's hear about what Hank does during the work week.

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• Re: Read it again, please Dee (24.156.129.68) 23:57:38 09/20/03 (6)
  • Re: Read it again, please Hank (64.12.96.11) 01:25:04 09/22/03 (5)
    • So, what do you do Henry? K.I.T.A. (63.190.112.163) 21:44:29 09/24/03 (4)
      • Re: So, what do you do Henry? Who Wha? (152.163.252.69) 02:41:33 09/25/03 (3)
        • That makes you a..... K.I.T.A. (63.190.104.34) 18:29:18 09/26/03 (2)
          • hey kita ARGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH GOT IT? NOW STAY OUT MY FACE (205.188.208.106) 01:27:21 09/28/03 (0)
          • HEY RO-BIT(eat da soup) HEY RO-BIT (eat da salit) SHER-BERT (205.188.208.106) 00:46:00 09/28/03 (0)

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