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Posted by Hank (64.12.96.11) on September 22, 2003 at 01:25:04:

In Reply to: Re: Read it again, please posted by Dee (24.156.129.68) on September 20, 2003 at 23:57:38:

> > Where did I say that I married her? She is my fiance. I don't live with my fiance. We both work all day long, how am I going to help her?

> > I'm truly mystified when people don't comprehend what they read.
> > > Hank, are you actually a nine? and is your wife a very frustrated three?
> > > Teachers spend an inordinate amount of time on preparation, especially
> > > when they want to SUCEED in educating students. Threes also want relationships to SUCEED. Slackers really frustrate threes, especially,
> > > spouses who are not mission oriented. Result: Nine: who me? Three:
> > > I do not know how to "handle" him. Observing party: She is so "pissed"
> > > she seems like a carping one. So, how are you "helping" your wife? Is
> > > it by letting her take the lead, set the agenda, do the work, while you
> > > "help." That is what average to lower level Nines do while rationalizing
> > > that it is "helpful" to the situation. Actually, it is reducing internal
> > > conflict for the nine, while simultaneously infuriating the significant
> > > other, who has no justification for being angry: after all, they are being
> > > "Helped." Let's hear about what Hank does during the work week.

>
> Hank, as per the above crap from Hellper, he's an unhealthy type 3. he/she is trying to succeed in ticking you off, don't let it happen.

>
> Dee : )

Thank you for the heads up. I was wondering about his motivation myself :>)

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> > > Where did I say that I married her? She is my fiance. I don't live with my fiance. We both work all day long, how am I going to help her? > > > I'm truly mystified when people don't comprehend what they read. > > > > Hank, are you actually a nine? and is your wife a very frustrated three? > > > > Teachers spend an inordinate amount of time on preparation, especially > > > > when they want to SUCEED in educating students. Threes also want relationships to SUCEED. Slackers really frustrate threes, especially, > > > > spouses who are not mission oriented. Result: Nine: who me? Three: > > > > I do not know how to "handle" him. Observing party: She is so "pissed" > > > > she seems like a carping one. So, how are you "helping" your wife? Is > > > > it by letting her take the lead, set the agenda, do the work, while you > > > > "help." That is what average to lower level Nines do while rationalizing > > > > that it is "helpful" to the situation. Actually, it is reducing internal > > > > conflict for the nine, while simultaneously infuriating the significant > > > > other, who has no justification for being angry: after all, they are being > > > > "Helped." Let's hear about what Hank does during the work week. > > > > > Hank, as per the above crap from Hellper, he's an unhealthy type 3. he/she is trying to succeed in ticking you off, don't let it happen. > > > > Dee : ) > > Thank you for the heads up. I was wondering about his motivation myself :>)

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