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Enneagram Type 5 Board Archive Not if you find someone who needs time alone themselves and you coordintate. nmPosted by WingPrayer on July 20, 2000 at 11:21:33: In Reply to: Does 5 need to rest alone inhibit relationships? posted by Margaret on July 19, 2000 at 20:35:48: : I know this: I need time alone - where 8 million people aren't constantly nagging at me at all times and all hours of the day and night. : Most of the hours in the day this is what happens. : My greatest fear in living with another is my "quiet time", "alone time" being invaded. : I need this time to recuperate. : But I need it and if people barge in on me constantly nagging at me all the time never letting me have my peace, my rest, I cannot live like this. : I like living alone the most, because I can get the most peace this way. : But I want to love. : I fear love means trading away your peace, your quiet time, your time to rest, sleep, and recuperate from all the troubles and daily grind in life. : This is what I fear. I don't know if it's true. : But I do fear it might be and if so, how can I possibly live with love if I can't have time to get some peace and quiet, and rest and sleep?
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