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Not if you find someone who needs time alone themselves and you coordintate. nm

Not if you find someone who needs time alone themselves and you coordintate. nm


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Posted by WingPrayer on July 20, 2000 at 11:21:33:

In Reply to: Does 5 need to rest alone inhibit relationships? posted by Margaret on July 19, 2000 at 20:35:48:

: I know this: I need time alone - where 8 million people aren't constantly nagging at me at all times and all hours of the day and night.

: Most of the hours in the day this is what happens.
: But I need a break from all this.
: (Actually the more, the better.)

: My greatest fear in living with another is my "quiet time", "alone time" being invaded.

: I need this time to recuperate.
: I rest, or sleep, mostly rest.

: But I need it and if people barge in on me constantly nagging at me all the time never letting me have my peace, my rest, I cannot live like this.

: I like living alone the most, because I can get the most peace this way.

: But I want to love.

: I fear love means trading away your peace, your quiet time, your time to rest, sleep, and recuperate from all the troubles and daily grind in life.

: This is what I fear. I don't know if it's true.

: But I do fear it might be and if so, how can I possibly live with love if I can't have time to get some peace and quiet, and rest and sleep?




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