Posted by Not Thinking Anymore on December 31, 2000 at 00:23:05:
In Reply to: If you would post your and his full test scores from highest all the way to lowest, I'll try to help analyze this marriage. posted by K.B. on December 30, 2000 at 02:14:17:
Ok, here are the numbers, ready for crunching:
Me:
One=5 / Two=0 / Three=-3 / Four=5 / Five=7 / Six=-9 / Seven=-10 / Eight=2
Nine=3
I've often scored much higher in catagory Eight, as well as much higher in catagory Five.
Him:
One=-1 / Two=-3 / Three=9 / Four=13 / Five=-7 / Six=6 / Seven-0 / Eight=-9
Nine=-8
Which is funny because the main problem has been his overagression...
Any light you could shed on this relationship would be much appreciated. Now that I am to the point of looking for an apartment of my own, he is destroyed and he begs me to reconsider. It is a very painful situation and I am completely torn. Thanks again for your input.
And thank you to Dorga, as well. Your insight has made me think!
: : I am just curious about other people's experiences.
: : I am a female 54 married to a pure 4. (Ok, that probably isn't possible...just seems that way!)
: : We have gotten to the point where there is no true communication happening. It has become a disasterous relationship, and there are new horrors daily. Yet, I don't seem to have the motivation to leave. Or to do anything at all except hide and wait. Anyone have any tips about hurtling yourself out of stagnation?
: : I know, this probably belongs on the "Care Board". I couldn't bring myself to post to that board, however. This is my first time here.