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Enneagram Type 5 Board Archive why watch out for 2s?Posted by yossarian on July 30, 2000 at 13:04:57: In Reply to: Re: 5s in relationships... common couples?? posted by chuck on July 29, 2000 at 21:45:55: You seem to warn against 2s as the third member of a relationship to watch out for? Why? Was this personal experience? Why would you say that 9s begin to be attracted to 2s specifically, and not just anyone? I for one was always under the belief that 9s were particularly attracted to 7s, because 7s will be fun and clever and entertain the 9, all the while willing to do so, while the 9 can sit back and be entertained and enjoy life vicariously without having to do any of the identy crisis causing things they might have to in other relationships.. so if youre a 5 in a realtionship with a 9, Id have to say if youre going to watch out for 2s, watch out for 7s as well!! heh heh. : A very interesting topic. But this is my question for all 5's. : Assuming you have a relationship with a 9, what could be a potential threat to you relationship from someone who is not a 5? (This question apply to all other types you, as a 5, might have a relationship with....) : For this instance (5-9), I'd like to single out 2's to be the most dangerous threat. A longe relationship with 5's can make 2's appear very applealing to 9's. : In other word, if you are 5, please keep a healthy jealousy against 2's.
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