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Enneagram Type 5 Board Archive Sorry to see all these critical remarks from Fives, Curious, but... (continued inside)Posted by Robin on August 02, 2000 at 14:41:30: In Reply to: Re: Look to Reason posted by Curious on July 31, 2000 at 16:27:19: You have not justified your position with examples. The phrasing of your message suggest that we start from the assumption that you are right and the two Fives in your life are wrong. Furthermore, when you say "change," I presume that you mean change for the better. This means that you consider their current state suboptimal and unsatisfactory to you. To say that you want an unsatisfactory situation to change is the same as saying that you want the situation fixed. In this case, you want those two people to be "fixed." Essentially, you've imposed the judgment that these two people are dysfunctional, in your opinion, and therefore need to be "fixed." How did you come to be engaged to be married to a man that you consider dysfunctional?
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