Re: 4,5,9 bonding

Posted by RoTtEn LiZ on April 30, 2001 at 21:49:21:

In Reply to: 4,5,9 bonding posted by Tiggy on April 30, 2001 at 20:39:30:

: 4,5,9 has an amazing bond. I call them the Holy Trinity. I have often been in situations where there's been a four, five and nine together and it's incredible how well they relate, the conversation becomes very connected. It's like those three have an understanding of each other (I'm talking about different groups of people here, except for the Four - me. As a Four, Fives and Nines are the types I relate closest to. Fives and Nines I've spoken to have said the same too.

--> Tiggy, sometimes you sould like you're on a different planet where personalities work in a whole different scheme. As a 5, there's no personality (except 2) that I have more trouble with than 9s. 9s drive me crazy. Ya know that 9ish innocent bliss? Makes me want to just smack them into reality.

My reference to bonding though was theorectical... 4s and 5s are similar in that neither properly bonded as an infant... 9s are the opposite... they not only bonded but they were so comfortable in that bond that they didn't properly differentiate. So that makes them very different... despite all being introverted.

I do think 9s are generally good for 4s. 4s had a broken bond they long to have refilled... 9s are masters of bonding. But 5s... nope... particularly 5w4s, a type I think you have some grave misunderstandings regarding after reading some of your recent posts.

: Literature I've read states that they have a special connection in their relationship with the void as represented by the space opposite Point Nine on the Enneagram. Four and Five face each other across the void, but have different ways of dealing with it, Nine faces across to the Void and represents it's opposite, the culmination of everything.

--> Yeah, all that mystical bring out your essence shit... no thanks. Again, there's truth in that 4s and 5s never bonded and 9s bonded too well... doesn't mean we're good for each other.

Follow Ups:

• Re: 4,5,9 bonding Tiggy 21:02:06 05/04/01 (3)
  • Re: 4,5,9 bonding RoTtEn LiZ 01:57:15 05/05/01 (2)
    • Re: 4,5,9 bonding Tiggy 22:48:48 05/06/01 (1)
      • Re: 4,5,9 bonding RoTtEn LiZ 10:01:30 05/07/01 (0)
• some more on triads... isaac 10:11:49 05/02/01 (3)
  • Re: some more on triads... RoTtEn LiZ 12:12:17 05/02/01 (2)
    • the trouble with triads... isaac 13:36:31 05/02/01 (1)
      • Re: the trouble with triads... RoTtEn LiZ 14:20:50 05/02/01 (0)

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