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Enneagram Type 5 Board Archive Haha! All of a sudden....Posted by a hyprocrite on June 25, 2001 at 22:41:17: In Reply to: Fives and relationships posted by Cory on June 23, 2001 at 23:12:54: a relationship expert? I think not. : I have found the ULTIMATE relationship. I don't know whether she knows it or not, but it's between Liz and I. Don't worry; I won't get all sentimental. I don't think about her every minute...I don't write poems to her...she's not even my soulmate. She's simply a great friend...who I fuck. that's not a relationship at all. Best call it a few one night stands! : It's a practical relationship for two Fives. Since we both prefer to be alone 99% of the time and don't have much emotional needs, you fulfill what we need fulfilled -- sexuality and having fun! Talking about the enneagram in a park with her is fun. Having wild drunken experimental sex with her is fun. Getting in trouble and having adventures with her is fun. : Now I also have a "girlfriend" whom I am fearing by the minute. She has fallen for me fast and is of the emotional variety. My biggest fear is that I won't live up to her perception of me. She sees me as this trustworthy, honest, gentle, sensitive person...little does she know I had sex with another woman the SAME DAY we got together. I just laugh at you the way you call your current relationship, a relationship. all this cheating you're doing will come back to hit you in face, one day suppose you really do find your love and she cheats on you. ever think about this, all you are doing is hurting yourself, the person you have a relationship with and the person you are having an affair with. : However I am also a very empathic and compassionate person. I won't tell her about this because I don't want to hurt her. Honestly. I may be a bit double-sided but I'm not completely calloused to others' feelings. oh sure what she don't know can't hurt her? right? bullshit I say. : So, how can I get rid of this girl? Should I break it off right now? Should I make up an excuse? I don't love her at all, it's just an infatuation. I led her to think that I love her, mostly on accident. Once when she was walking away I blurted out "I love you" -- but what was really strange was that I had no control over it. It just came out. It was almost as if someone else talked. Your mind is twisted that you don't know who you love your girlfriend or Liz. And if you call fucking love, then I feel sorry for you. : Couples suck. The world would be a better place if no one had exclusive relationships and just fulfilled each others' sexual needs. How the heck would you know anything about this? Might as well be characters in the book "Lord of the flies" A bunch of sexual savages. oh what a sight that will be!
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