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Re: Types who are prone to estrange?

Re: Types who are prone to estrange?


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Posted by Gigi on July 16, 2000 at 07:50:32:

In Reply to: Re: Types who are prone to estrange? posted by Laurence on July 16, 2000 at 05:49:27:

Hello to the 5-community! I hope you will allow foreigners here!

I would think that every type has a different reason for pushing people away:

E3- To concentrate on the project or work. It is nice if time spent with people would serve a purpose such as better relations. If aimless idle chat is detected the 3 disappears. Another reason for pushing: Should
feelings and/or image, intimacy be questioned or demanded, the 3
withdraws. It is difficult to discuss some things. I have attended morning coffee/lunch time/tea get-togethers with girl friends only maybe 10 times in my life. But I extremely enjoy evening mixed events.

E4- Impulsivity plays a role. I have seen 4 friends open up one day and be sorry for it and push the next day. Also the 4 may suddenly decide that she does not like some thing about you and be very arrogant about it and not heed you.

E6- They are usually very friendly. They easily approach you. The ones who push you are the tense serious ones who do not know how to handle people

E1- Can be very aloof and distant. Could be that they do not want to be affected by others.

Any comments?

Gigi (3w4)


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