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Enneagram Type 5 Board Archive Re: fives in relationships...Posted by lenee on August 04, 2001 at 19:07:09: In Reply to: Re: fives in relationships... posted by Jeff on August 04, 2001 at 13:55:10:
Are there other Intimate Variant Fives like me who, in spite of an overall style of detachment, actually can get "overattached" in intimate relationships? I'm often the one who gets upset if I don't hear back from the other person fast enough! So when I read how other Fives feel, I think "maybe I'm not a Five" but I really believe I am. Though I certainly tend to withdraw when things feel "too close", I can't really relate to not getting attached--And though I have been characterized as coming across as aloof all my life, I can't really relate to the inner experience of not wanting connection--four wing or intimate subtype influences? Just curious if there are other Fives who feel the same way.
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