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Posted by Ryan on September 19, 2001 at 21:58:02:

In Reply to: Re: I need a type 5's advice posted by RoTtEn ApPlE on September 18, 2001 at 21:46:27:

How unfortunate. Sex is so much better with emotion than without. I almost feel badly about how much more I get out of it than you do. Hell, if you like sex for "play" so much why don't you just try it with animals sometime? Your emotional unhealth seems to disturb me more with each post I read. But what saddens me even more is how many "playmates" you actually seem to find. And before you get that unhealthy 4 wing "I'm being condemned by morality" martyr thing going again, the reason I make these posts is not because I believe in morality at all but because I believe in ideals and you're the ultimate anti-idealist. Who enjoys eating overripe fruit when it's more fun to throw it against a wall and watch the mess it makes when it explodes?

Ryan

: : How do I tell an individual that I had a night of fun with, after they told me they are not interested in dating at this time, that we could just hook up for nights of fun and not have to worry about dating....How would a type 5 word that to another individual...anybody somebody, please help me, as I am so into this person, and wouldn't mind just getting together to indulge.

: >>> Just be simple and direct... I'd say make it clear there are no expections or obligations... strictly voluntary. I use the term 'play' (because it strips any notion of seriousness) and anything that emphasizes the senses rather than emotions.

: 'If you'd like to come over and play again sometime, I'd like that.'
: 'I want to taste you again... when can you come play?'
: 'You're a lot of fun. Let's set another playdate.'

: Hehheh... depends on the person too and how comfortable they are with words like 'fuck'...

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Nah, I'm not that kinky ;) RoTtEn ApPlE 03:03:22 09/20/01 (25)
- i love it when you do that... isaac 11:13:23 09/21/01 (0)
- Re: Nah, I'm not that kinky ;) Emily 13:12:59 09/20/01 (23)
  - Looooooooove RoTtEn ApPlE 16:22:26 09/20/01 (22)
    - Re: Looooooooove Emily 16:50:44 09/20/01 (21)
      - Re: Looooooooove RoTtEn ApPlE 23:30:34 09/20/01 (19)
        
        it's overrated anyway... isaac 11:12:16 09/21/01 (18)
        
        You're only talking about your own personal experiences, right? Emily 04:18:19 09/22/01 (4)
        
        Re: You're only talking about your own personal experiences, right? Primer Gray 09:53:45 09/22/01 (3)
        
        I could never answer that... Emily 14:25:38 09/22/01 (2)
        
        personal experience... isaac 16:24:57 09/22/01 (1)
        
        *Back Button* Emily [nt] 18:26:49 09/22/01 (0)
        
        Re: it's overrated anyway... RoTtEn ApPlE 13:44:36 09/21/01 (12)
        
        Definitions and boundaries Emily 04:23:03 09/22/01 (10)
        
        Re: Definitions and boundaries RoTtEn ApPlE 13:48:26 09/22/01 (3)
        
        Re: Definitions and boundaries Ryan 15:02:07 09/22/01 (1)
        
        hahaahaahhaahhahha isaac 15:32:16 09/24/01 (0)
        
        Yah, I have that in me too... Emily 14:29:30 09/22/01 (0)
        
        Re: Definitions and boundaries Primer Gray 10:18:54 09/22/01 (5)
        
        Re: Definitions and boundaries Ryan 11:37:54 09/22/01 (4)
        
        Re: Definitions and boundaries Primer Gray 12:26:04 09/22/01 (3)
        
        Re: Definitions and boundaries Emily 14:33:33 09/22/01 (2)
        
        Fair enough... Primer Gray 22:02:31 09/22/01 (1)
        
        It's true, I do. All my love, Primer. Emily [nt] 00:21:42 09/23/01 (0)
        
        Re: it's overrated anyway... Ryan 19:08:09 09/21/01 (0)
      - By the way... Emily 16:53:14 09/20/01 (0)
Re: I guess that makes your bed a playpen then... Primer Gray 22:39:01 09/19/01 (1)
- more on sex and idealism Ryan 19:10:57 09/20/01 (0)

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: How unfortunate. Sex is so much better with emotion than without. I almost feel badly about how much more I get out of it than you do. Hell, if you like sex for "play" so much why don't you just try it with animals sometime? Your emotional unhealth seems to disturb me more with each post I read. But what saddens me even more is how many "playmates" you actually seem to find. And before you get that unhealthy 4 wing "I'm being condemned by morality" martyr thing going again, the reason I make these posts is not because I believe in morality at all but because I believe in ideals and you're the ultimate anti-idealist. Who enjoys eating overripe fruit when it's more fun to throw it against a wall and watch the mess it makes when it explodes? : Ryan : : : : How do I tell an individual that I had a night of fun with, after they told me they are not interested in dating at this time, that we could just hook up for nights of fun and not have to worry about dating....How would a type 5 word that to another individual...anybody somebody, please help me, as I am so into this person, and wouldn't mind just getting together to indulge. : : >>> Just be simple and direct... I'd say make it clear there are no expections or obligations... strictly voluntary. I use the term 'play' (because it strips any notion of seriousness) and anything that emphasizes the senses rather than emotions. : : 'If you'd like to come over and play again sometime, I'd like that.' : : 'I want to taste you again... when can you come play?' : : 'You're a lot of fun. Let's set another playdate.' : : Hehheh... depends on the person too and how comfortable they are with words like 'fuck'...

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