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Enneagram Type 5 Board Archive unless the cat asked them to keep it a secret, right?Posted by tim sanders on October 21, 2001 at 14:04:21: In Reply to: Re: Yes, Rush. In fact, I am tempted to repeal my previously stated ideal in favor of a higher one: An event of killing is everyone's business. NT posted by Ochre Yellow on October 21, 2001 at 14:02:27: : : : : : have you checked your email yet? this is what i mean "blind and unfocused" : : : : thanks, us w/ sp. : : : : if you want to take a lack of denial as an admission of guilt, that's your own choice. but it's not logical, since there are plenty of other possible reasons why i might choose not to discuss the particulars of my personal life on the internet. first of all, i NEVER discuss the particulars of my personal life on here. if you notice, i don't talk about my sex life here, i don't discuss my feelings about people in the real life (at least not fingering them personally by name) and i CERTAINLY don't bring my irl inter-personal conflicts to this forum. : : : : with rare exception, people on the internet are text on a screen to me. you will get no information from me about this situation. most of you are not my friends or my enemies. you have no part in this, and thus no right to any information about it. you are people with whom i choose to communicate in a very select manner about topics i am comfortable sharing with the world at large. every story has at least 2 sides, and if you feel that your vague understanding of one side of this story entitles you to make judgements about my character, then go ahead. it is only right to make your conclusions based on the information you have; but know that the conclusions can not logically be more certain than the premises they are based on. : : : : in the position of a bystander in all this, i'd likely conclude that the lack of a denial means that isaac doesn't care what we all think of him, and doesn't want to share this part of his life with people on the internet. that is the truth, and i hope that you all can see that. a good many of you hated me before this thread showed up, and that has never bothered me. if this little flaming gives you fuel for that fire, then have fun with it. i'm not going to change my policy, and i dont' think it would make any difference anyway. those that respect my intelligence and enneagrammic expertise still will, and those that poke at everything i post wouldn't be stopped by knowing my side of the story. in fact, it may even give them ammunition. i would like to get back to the discussion of interesting things as soon as possible. everyone, this is not your business, so please move on with your lives. : : : : ochre yellow, yes, meghan can say whatever she wants to whoever she wants. but i can also say, or choose not to say, whatever i want to whoever i want. in fact, i probably could have simply gotten emily to erase the whole thread, or managed to convince a bunch of you that i did nothing wrong by simply denying any truth in any of it. but the fact of the matter is, it's just not your business at all, and it shouldn't be my job to tell you that. i believe that it is weak to bring a private conflict into a public forum. and it is also ineffective when the person being smeared doesn't mind being hated. : : : :
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