Posted by JP on October 27, 2001 at 12:39:04:
In Reply to: Oh fuck... posted by Elizabeth on October 26, 2001 at 22:48:48:
I can't find the thread, but somewhere you said you thought 1's were afraid of making mistakes or not living up to their standards or something.
In obseving my closest 1 friend it seemed to me that he had this uncertainty about what was "right" and so was always seeking to quantify how to circumscribe his behavior - how to have the perfect "code of conduct". And if he failed in living up to that standard, or if others around him unwittingly (or purposefully) ignored what he believed to be "right", then he became angry at the violator. And he was basically blind to his anger; he couldn't imagine others not feeling the same way.