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Enneagram Type 5 Board Archive Re: i have.Posted by isaac on January 14, 2002 at 10:16:52: In Reply to: Re: i have. posted by Kailen on January 11, 2002 at 23:48:58: : You say you had bad relationships with 9w1, so why did you keep going from one 9w1 to another? i'm not sure. but the cycle is broken, praise lucifer.
maybe.
glad to hear it. what's your wing, just outta curiousity? : I also found that, because we were both such opposites, each of us posessed a quality, which the other one lacked. Our relationship had a certain dynamic. that's good.
well, you should call him up and ask him straight out. don't be too put off if he needs a little time to think about it, that's normal. even though you shouldn't have to, it might be helpful make it clear that he can say "no" and you'll take that answer and be ok with it, that you just wanna know how he stands, that's all. and, if he says no, believe it and walk away. i think you'll find that 5s can be remarkably forgiving about being dumped. but you shouldn't offer unless you can handle rejection. isaac
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