Posted by RoTtEn ApPlE on January 29, 2002 at 22:40:04:
In Reply to: Intrusiveness posted by Sharlee on January 29, 2002 at 06:34:23:
: Are you sure that its not her 2 intrusiveness that concerns you the most (invading your inner space) rather than having to explain things to her. Consider her as a gift for your personal development. Looking at it in that perspective may make it a lot less unbearable.It could also be a good opportunity to learn how to tactfully assert your needs without taking the complete withdrawel option. Good luck! Sharlee
Heh, I'm so bothered by intrusiveness someone asking 'How are you?' gets a defensive reaction from me. ;) Buuuuuuuuuut actually I think it's that she violates my core values... I don't think I need to adapt for her.