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Enneagram Type 5 Board Archive A Seven and A Five In A Relationship--A 220 amp connectionPosted by julianna (205.188.208.38) on September 26, 2002 at 15:51:41: Hi, I am seeking to better understand a Five/sexual variant subtype. He called me the next day and left me a message. I returned his call later that day. He asked me out for Friday night and I agreed but not too readily. We talked for one and a half hours. He called in the middle of the week to confirm for Friday night and agreed where to meet. Friday arrives and I dont want to go but I said I would so I did. Oh am I glad I went. At the end of dinner he begant to lightly rub my arm, the vibes began to build. He was definitely heating up my tempature. He walks me to the car and kisses me and asks me to go to a movie with him the next night. I say I cannot. He calls me Saturday asks me out again and I say I cannot. On Sunday I call him and ask him if he would like to go for a run in the park. He agrees and we meet. What a run, it was intoxicating, he kissed me constantly, we did more kissing than running, he held my hand, he was passionate, he was warm, he was sensitive, etc. At the end he said he would call me. Five days go by, no call. Saturday I return to the grocery store and he comes up to me and says something witty. He begins to draw circles on my belly with his pen cap. He kisses me I kiss him back, neither of us cares we are in the vegetable aisle. He asks me if I lost his number I tell him no that he said he would call me. He asks me to go out the following night, I suggest he come over for dinner. He arrives for dinner, he is not in the house one minute until we are making out like crazy. He stays for six hours, we cook, we laugh, we talk, we kiss and kiss and kiss and kiss. We did both keep our clothes on but it was a rush like I have never had. He was passionate and erotic and everything I ever wanted in a man and remember we are just kissing. At the end of the evening I tell him I want to see him again, he says, okay and then vaguely says something about him cooking for me or going to a movie. That has been four days ago I have not heard from him Could anyone please explain to me what is taking place? The chemistry seems to be there, there is also some intellectual compatability. Have I done something wrong? What do I need to do to see him again? This man is incredible. Any suggestions, comments, clarifications, etc. would be most appreciated. Thanks.
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