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Posted by Areia (24.188.239.242) on September 30, 2002 at 13:22:51:
In Reply to: Re: A 6w5? posted by julianna (64.12.96.11) on September 27, 2002 at 08:01:13:
6w5 is my guess. This fellow displays the sixish "flips" that drive me crazy (which is probably why he hasn't called you in a few days). Also, it's unlikely that a 5 -- or a 7 -- would follow that closely in his father's footsteps. Dry wit, impetuous drive to go up and meet strange women in parking lots (no offense to you :), concerned with his financial situation = 6w5, baby. Reactive like a 4, cool like a 5. > Hi Ryan,
> Thanks for your input--how about a 6w5? He isnt really flattering, very attentive but not gushy. He has this thing about being secretive, which isnt really too seven. I dont have the need to "spill my guts" but I dont think people would describe me as secretive. > He called me last night and we talked for about an hour, but nothing of substance(I know I know that rules out 5) but we didnt make any plans for the weekend he said he would talk to me soon at the end of the conversation and that we'd have to see about doing something this weekend--but no commitment was made to anything specific. I already have plans for the weekend, sevens dont wait well for much of anything. He seems commitment phobic, has a real fascination for the Internet and things that are macabre but hasnt had an inordinate amount of sexual partners for 39 years old. I suspect he uses fantasy a great deal in his private life--much safer and no involvement is required. > > Any thoughts? Thanks, sorry to be a pain. > > > What are his hobbies besides trying to seduce you? My guess is that he's a self-preservation 7w8. 5s don't ask as many questions and definitely not the "probing" type like 7s do. 5s usually tend to make their own conclusions from observation. The fact that you are both 7s would explain why you get along so well. A 5 would be shyer and much less charming than this guy seems to be. He sounds a lot like one of my 7w8 friends from college who used to like to tell me stories about women he hooked up with using similar methods as this guy.
> > Ryan > > > Hi everyone, > > > Thanks for your input, then I dont know who I am dealing with. > > > I thought he was a five but now I am not so certain. Those of you who are fives know your own behaviors far better than I ever will. > > > Is it possible he is a Six? Any input would be appreciated. > > > Here are a few things I know about him > > > Ryan he is a financial planner because his father owns the business and he followed his father into the business, he used to work for a cable company, doing repairs, etc. > > > He is 39 years old and was married for two years and then divorced, did not get married until he was 36 years old. > > > He lives alone-did not live with his ex-wife before he married her and then found the daily living together excruciating. Said it was hell on earth. > > > Seems to need a great deal of time alone, is very secretive about his activities, doesnt share alot about himself but loves to probe like the guy in sex, lies, and videotapes. > > > Does this fit the profile of any specific number? > > > > > >
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