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Enneagram Type 5 Board Archive Is it possible for 5 to love but not being able to recognize it?Posted by Six sence (192.94.3.10) on October 04, 2002 at 13:49:40:
I am a 4w5 female and my love is 5w4. We are having some problems with “4 gets too demanding while the 5 gets more withdrawn” but we are aware of it and I am working hard to develop even more my strong 5 wing. The question I have is that I could not understand if he loves me at all. I was positive that he loves, but lately … He told me last night that he is attracted to another girl but he still loves me. And that “I don't know how I feel anymore”. And “I feel very lost”. And he hopes I will be able to help him. Is there any way to help him? What could I do? At this point I told him that he should take time out, that I love him, and that I trust him that he is capable to sort things out. Anything else can I do? Is it possible for 5 to love but not being able to recognize it?
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