Re: Attention Male Fives: advice needed

Posted by SF5w4 on July 13, 2000 at 16:01:31:

In Reply to: Attention Male Fives: advice needed posted by Sedna on July 13, 2000 at 15:08:12:

I have to echo what Heidi said. Speaking as a 5w4 male, if he's attracted to you I'd bet that he won't let you know it until he's certain of your feelings. To that end, I wouldn't necessarily pour it on since that would likely make him uncomfortable, but let him know that you enjoy his company. If he's interested in you, he'll drop subtle hints - "I had a nice time with you", "You look nice tonight" but never anything that would remotely sound like a come-on. Your best bet is to see him in a group, but interact with him individually so that he knows that you value his company over others. If he's content to break off from the pack and spend time with you alone then you're probably on the right track. If you act detached as well he will think that you are not interested and resign himself to just being friends. It can be a complicated courting ritual because so often we are unsure about your feelings and don't want to mistake your being friendly for an invitation.

Hope that helps some. Good luck.

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