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Enneagram Type 5 Board Archive Different reasonsPosted by Rotten Apple on November 16, 2000 at 23:28:09: In Reply to: Re: How do you know he was actually a 5? N.T. posted by Heidi on November 16, 2000 at 02:02:51: Haha... it totally 5ish to cut off a loved one. Distinction between a 5/6 or a 5/4? Motivation. 6s are disgustingly loyal... guilt is always lying right beneath their skin. An unhealthy 6 loves to feel guilty and would masochistically cut themselves off from a good relationship to wallow in the guilt. (They'll also stick with a bad relationship to enjoy the role of martyr.) 4s are interested in melancholy loss and self-pity. An unhealthy 4 loves to feel abandoned and will even leave/sabotage a good relationship to get that self-pity fix. Pathetic either way.
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