Posted by Paul The Pharmacist (66.27.149.149) on January 21, 2003 at 08:22:15:
In Reply to: Re: another way of differentiating 4w5 from 5w4 posted by Interlocking (63.249.97.192) on January 21, 2003 at 01:05:57:
> > Consider your arrows, your stress and security points. Five's arrows are
> > seven (stress) and eight (security). Four's arrows are two (stress) and one > (security). I know that when I stress out, I frequently feel manic and want > to try to do everything at once which is sevenish. When I feel secure, I'm > likely to become much more assertive in an eight-like way.
> When stressed, depending on the stressor, I can or have become frantic, frozen, irritable, violent, and/or rigid. When secure I also become assertive, and take on traits that are both eightish and oneish. However, I can also go toward eightish or oneish when stressed. I'm never all that twoish.
You two have got me even more confused. If I am really stressed about something the main thing that happens is that I can't get it out of my mind and it goes round and round like continuous circuits. It bugs me.
Pork maybe you can help. Sounds like I stress out at six but Im not a nine although I have ninish traits. Like a four it is vital for me to have an important relationship with a woman. But once I feel "secure" having this relationship I "put it in my pocket and concentrate on learning. This 4w5-5w4 thing really is confusing. I have very strong feelings but usually keep them to myself. The last time I "blew" in a dramatic way was when I was having computer problems. To me that is a sign of a too strong intuitive function as sensation is my inferior function