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Posted by Jade (63.208.95.208) on January 30, 2003 at 18:39:30:

In Reply to: Re: to Ryan posted by Amy (67.116.50.109) on January 20, 2003 at 23:13:14:

> Someone else said that about females being less likely to be rejected than males. If that's true, I guess that's cool for me! I've made the first move a few times but probably most often in a situation where I don't really know the guy, where I mainly just know that I find him physically attractive. Regarding Justin (my co-worker), it's fine and well for me to sit here at home at my computer and say, yeah, I should make the first move, but when I'm actually in his presence, I don't feel ready to do that! I'm trying to push the flirting envelope little by little, but I haven't been bold yet. Here's another factor: having a thing for him is quite entertaining for me (I'm a sexual subtype), and if I found out he wasn't interested, I'd be deprived of this entertainment! I know this isn't a healthy reason to hold off making a move, but it *is* a reason in my living-in-my-head world.

> Amy

The hunt is always better than the catch :o)

...well, at least 9 out of 10 times [grin] where hopefully the 10th is a lasting partner, aye?

Jade

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> > Someone else said that about females being less likely to be rejected than males. If that's true, I guess that's cool for me! I've made the first move a few times but probably most often in a situation where I don't really know the guy, where I mainly just know that I find him physically attractive. Regarding Justin (my co-worker), it's fine and well for me to sit here at home at my computer and say, yeah, I should make the first move, but when I'm actually in his presence, I don't feel ready to do that! I'm trying to push the flirting envelope little by little, but I haven't been bold yet. Here's another factor: having a thing for him is quite entertaining for me (I'm a sexual subtype), and if I found out he wasn't interested, I'd be deprived of this entertainment! I know this isn't a healthy reason to hold off making a move, but it *is* a reason in my living-in-my-head world. > > Amy > The hunt is always better than the catch :o) > ...well, at least 9 out of 10 times [grin] where hopefully the 10th is a lasting partner, aye? > Jade

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