Posted by Bootz Z. (63.208.237.249) on February 02, 2003 at 14:57:06:
In Reply to: Re: another way of differentiating 4w5 from 5w4 posted by Paul The Pharmacist (66.27.149.149) on January 21, 2003 at 08:22:15:
I blew it was this morning when this guy I broke up with two weeks ago (a sexual 2) called me yet again trying to get in good with me. I screamed at him and told him I resented that he told all his friends and all his stupid co-dependency groups about my father's, brother's and mother's mental illnesses. I think that telling the world about someone else's family is a terrible betrayal. I had been having a nice day. I could only recover by doing yoga breathing. I find inhaling fully for a count of five and holding for a count of five and then releasing is the only way I can stop the mental ruminating. I have to detach or I go nuts and stay nuts. And life is so finite to maintain a bad mood. Anyone else have suggestions? Are fives better off without intimate relationships?