Posted by Carol food on May 15, 1998 at 14:11:54:
In Reply to: Re: Adoptees & Type 4s posted by John DiFool on November 20, 1997 at 19:04:15:
: Well, I should find out where my birthmother lives this weekend (fingers crossed). I am able
: to socialize with my adoptive parents, tho my mom (Type 2!) always interrupts me every 5 minutes
: for the first 2-3 days or so, usually when I am engrossed in a book or TV show. :) I am able to
: escape often enough to keep it from draining me. Plus at least my dad an I share the same kind
: of gentle needling humor, and can kind of whipsaw my poor mom to death between the two of us! All
: in good fun of course.....It may be that you are not ready to connect with your birthmother (tho
: I admittedly don't know enough about your situation); in my case I am about as ready as I can ever
: be, even tho she may be a bitch, sweetheart, anything in between, or even (ghod forbid) deceased (she is 57 this year).
: .............John DiFool
My mother can help you find her!6303574294