E-type correlation with Kingma's "9 Types of Loves"

Posted by Cecil on October 31, 1999 at 19:36:35:

Kingma, author of "Nine Types of Loves" analyzed nine types of ways people 'love':

Her list: E-Type Equivalent:

Attention-Seeker: 2
Emoter: 4
Cool Cucumber: 5
Skeptic: 6
Workaholic: 3
Perfectionist: 1
Fantasizer: 7
Controller: 8
People Pleaser: 9

Anyone else look at her book?
When I first read this, I thought I was the fantasizer, then the people pleaser, then the attention-seeker, but it was the emoter, the one who "lives in a donstant state of panic, emotional war zone, nonstop hysteria as the norm, body responding to unending fright by living in a heightened stat of flight or fight; heifhtened fight for survival is the only consistency in ther life; everythin is seen as a fight for survival, hysteria and choas is the norm; therefore, does not know/learn how to evaluate an appropriate emotional response"
Cecil

Follow Ups:

• Re: Love & Kingma's "9 Types of Loves". LovePhreak 23:09:03 10/31/99 (0)
• Accept diversity among systems as you accept diversity among human beings (?) Derf 22:31:58 10/31/99 (4)
  • Ok, here is a rational explanation Cory 13:37:03 11/01/99 (3)
    • Re: Ok, here is a rational explanation Derf 14:48:58 11/01/99 (2)
      • Re: Ok, here is a rational explanation Cory 15:30:53 11/01/99 (1)
        • Re: Ok, here is a rational explanation Derf 19:06:10 11/01/99 (0)
• Did she acknowledge the E-gram in her work? NT Tiggy. 19:51:24 10/31/99 (1)
  • Re: Does she acknowledge the E-gram in her work? WebSleuth 22:35:03 10/31/99 (0)

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