Posted by Tiggy. on October 31, 1999 at 19:51:24:
In Reply to: E-type correlation with Kingma's "9 Types of Loves" posted by Cecil on October 31, 1999 at 19:36:35:
> Kingma, author of "Nine Types of Loves" analyzed nine types of ways people 'love':
> Her list: E-Type Equivalent:
> Attention-Seeker: 2
> Emoter: 4
> Cool Cucumber: 5
> Skeptic: 6
> Workaholic: 3
> Perfectionist: 1
> Fantasizer: 7
> Controller: 8
> People Pleaser: 9
> Anyone else look at her book?
> When I first read this, I thought I was the fantasizer, then the people pleaser, then the attention-seeker, but it was the emoter, the one who "lives in a donstant state of panic, emotional war zone, nonstop hysteria as the norm, body responding to unending fright by living in a heightened stat of flight or fight; heifhtened fight for survival is the only consistency in ther life; everythin is seen as a fight for survival, hysteria and choas is the norm; therefore, does not know/learn how to evaluate an appropriate emotional response"
> Cecil