Posted by WebSleuth on October 31, 1999 at 22:35:03:
In Reply to: Did she acknowledge the E-gram in her work? NT posted by Tiggy. on October 31, 1999 at 19:51:24:
http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/1573241601/o/qid=941426206/sr=8-1/002-4279557-9089003
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http://www.conari.com/AuthorPages/AUTH_DaphneRoseKingma.htm
http://phenomenews.com/archives/nov1998/kingma.html
> > Kingma, author of "Nine Types of Loves" analyzed nine types of ways people 'love':
> > Her list: E-Type Equivalent:
> > Attention-Seeker: 2
> > Emoter: 4
> > Cool Cucumber: 5
> > Skeptic: 6
> > Workaholic: 3
> > Perfectionist: 1
> > Fantasizer: 7
> > Controller: 8
> > People Pleaser: 9
> > Anyone else look at her book?
> > When I first read this, I thought I was the fantasizer, then the people pleaser, then the attention-seeker, but it was the emoter, the one who "lives in a donstant state of panic, emotional war zone, nonstop hysteria as the norm, body responding to unending fright by living in a heightened stat of flight or fight; heifhtened fight for survival is the only consistency in ther life; everythin is seen as a fight for survival, hysteria and choas is the norm; therefore, does not know/learn how to evaluate an appropriate emotional response"
> > Cecil