Posted by Sonia on June 22, 1998 at 19:46:00:
In Reply to: Is my wife a 6 or a 9 posted by Bonehead on June 22, 1998 at 19:08:30:
: HELP! Try as I may I can't seem to type my wife. I think she's a 9 (warm, gregarious, helpfull, negotiator, bonds with people for life, great counseler, has a calming and healing demeanor) , but she acts alot like a 6 (constant questioning, doubtfull, sketical, detailed bargaining). She tested on the RHETI as a 2, folowed by 9 and 6.
: I read Riso's misidentifications, but I still can't tell what type she is. Any ideas?
Bonehead-
I,too, had a lot of trouble typing my spouse. I kept believing he was a 9
because in my mind that was a good match for me. Whenever he did things
that were obviously not 9-like, I miracously ignored it. When I finally
looked at the points of his character I was ignoring I realized he was a 1.
My biases didn't allow me to acknowledge all of his traits ( the ones I
liked and the ones i didn't).
You said that the RHETI typed her as 2, followed by 9 and 6. Why do you
think she's not a 2?