Posted by Bonehead on June 24, 1998 at 15:30:18:
In Reply to: Re: Is my wife a 6 or a 9 posted by walter on June 24, 1998 at 10:04:52:
Unfortunately I don't have her test scores as she did the test some weeks ago. I had to encourage her through as she's not into the enneagram, so doing it again may take some coaxing.
I think she scores high as a 2 because she takes care of kids all day and is in touch with her "helper" traits at the moment.
New info: I received an erroneous summons at home by certified mail. It was the wrong "bonehead". But, she called me at work. She is the type who's scared of the legal and police systems. It was no big deal for me (though as a 6 my heart did start racing when she at first said I got a summons), but she needed alot of re-assurrance that it was nothing. She's the type that says "COP!" when she sees a police car while driving, even though we're nowhere near the speed limit. It's a gut reaction.
So, is she a 6, but do I just look at her healthy side which is alot like 9? Or is she a 9 who looks like a 6 under stress?
This is confusing! Does anyone have a 6 or 9 spouse that they have trouble typing? How sis you decide?